Help!

Nothing is helping my redness!!
I have tried every recommended product over the last 18 months, and, while my breakout are significantly diminished (probably due to menopause [dear God, when did I get old?], as I no longer treat for breakouts), I see no improvement in the redness.
Happily, this is the only symptom of my super sensitivity (so maybe I should shut up now and count my blessings?)
Some products I have tried with insignificant or poor results:
Eucerin Redness relief cleanser (hate it), moisturizer SPF 15 (green was a bad idea - I'm not red on my forehead or neck, but now I'm green), and night cream.
DHC Olive Virgin oil
Olay Regenerist Serum
Clarins Santal Oil
Aveeno Ultra Calming night Cream
Aveeno ultra Calming moisurizer SPF 15

The only real success has been la-Roche Posay Spring Water. I can't tell you how much I love this stuff!

I have also changed my foundation several times, and use Alima Mineral makeup when oily-ish, and Clinique Perfectly real when drier.

I am open to any and all suggestions.

I am posting this on OSNW and DSNW forums, as my O/D score is borderline, and changes from summer to winter.

Thanks to all.