PomMom,
My skin type is different from yours, but I just wanted to say that I doubt Renova would dry you out terribly. You use just a tiny amount and can moisturizer over it. You could start out every other night and see how it went. I have Rosacea and it has calmed down since I've started using the calming moisturizers. I'm using Olay Regenerist serum unscented (was using that anyway), Aveeno Ultra Calming Moisturizer Lotion SPF15, and Prescriptives Redness Relief Gel. These are all things she recommends, although maybe not for your type.
I would suggest going ahead and trying something, although only one product at a time and see how it goes. Good luck!