Hi Kylie56, I'm very borderline and must always keep the D in mind. I am following a pretty basic regimen: wash with Eucerin Redness Relief Soothing Cleanser (I use this on my neck area too), Dove Sensitive Essentials Night Cream around my eyes, SkinCeuticals Phyto Corrective Gel as an anti-inflammatory serum (recommended for pigmentation too), and then an Olay SPF moisturizer (was using Complete Defense for sensitive skin but just started using the fragrance free Total Effects 7x and actually really like it) or Olay Total Effects 7x (without SPF) at night.
I love the Dove night cream, though it is discontinued. I've been stocking up at Big Lots - only $2.50 / jar! It is a very nice, fragrance free cream that feels smooth and elegant, and makes my skin soft. I used it as my main night moisturizer in colder months and will go back to it when the weather changes again. It really helped my skin when it needed healing (my skin is noticeably less reactive now), and it has kept the skin around my eyes from flaring up with redness (I apparently have an ongoing issue with dryness and allergies around my eyes). If you have a Big Lots near you I would recommend looking for it and giving it a try.
I also use the DDF Sulfur Therapeutic mask, though I don't think that's what you're looking for at this point.
Hope you find something that helps.