Hi Debby!
I saw your post and realized I could have written it...it sounds so familiar! I was put into surgical menopause when I was 35 (I'm 38). My skin has gone haywire. I am very dry to the point of flaking(winter was awful), have a lot of fine lines, crepiness around my eyes, some skin tags (moles?) under my eyes, sun discoloration, clogged pores on nose and chin, and just plain "blah" looking. I have even noticed that my skin all over my body is very dry. I have also become much more sensitive and allergic. I moisturize my body constantly and drink a lot of water. My current facial regimen is: wash with La Roche Posay gentle cleanser, use a gel for rosacea symptoms such as metrogel, klaron, or clindamycin (so far the clindamycin is the least drying), use Philosophy Pigment of your imagination for age/sun spots, spray with mineral water, apply moisturizer with sunscreen (Elizabeth Arden Ceramide face and eye creams for daytime and Atopalm for nighttime.) I feel that the gentle cleanser is better, but I don't like shelling out the money for it and would like to find a less expensive alternative. The mineral water/moisturizer combo seems to be a really good thing. I am not certain that I like the Elizabeth Arden. It is also expensive and sometimes I feel like it doesn't really "sink in". I also haven't noticed any lessening of fine lines with use. The Atopalm feels good, but it seems like I have to use a lot in order to get enough moisture. By the way, I settled on this regimen because I was so tired of feeling flaky, red and sore that I picked all of the "Baumann's Choices" from the book/website. Please let me know what you are using and what you find to be particularly helpful. It is also very frustrating to be fighting dry flakes at the same time as trying to unclog pores. Moisturizing has helped with the clogged pores, but not completely.
-Alane